Learn How to Squirt: Female Ejaculation for Beginners
If you feel something spongy and ribbed, that’s it. I know I’m close when I hear crazy wet slurping sounds coming from my box and I feel the incredible urge to bear down on whatever is inside me. Some people experience this as a similar feeling to needing to pee. I have a hard time squirting when my [vagina] is full, so me saying, “Pull out! Pull out! Pull out!” is normally a surefire sign that I’m about to squirt. Sometimes there’s a delay of up to ten seconds after withdrawal before I come.
This discourages some people from squirting because they fear they’re just going to pee. Knowing this is a common sensation can help your partner relax and push through the confusing “peeing” feeling. But if you’re a big, fire-hydrant squirter, that fluid is coming from the bladder, not the Skene’s glans.
You can see that your partner doesn’t need to penetrate you deeply; they only need to go about 2-3 inches deep, making sure the tip of their penis is focused on your G Spot/Skene’s gland area. Juicing is simply twisting your dildo while it’s inside your vagina instead of pressing it in and out. It requires a lot of lube and a dildo that has no sharp edges. Rather than focusing on the entire front wall of your vagina with your dildo, you can also focus solely on your G Spot. That’s only 1 in 8 women, so it’s certainly the minority of women.
Well, controlling PC muscles will not be the ultimate thing that will lead you to squirt but it can certainly help. The vulva and vagina of a woman need to be full to make her sexually aroused. But, to make her sexually aroused, you just cannot rush. Look, there are very few places inside a woman’s vagina where she will have more erotic sensations than others. One of the biggest obstacles in squirting is stress.
Nipple clamps and suction vibrators can offer pleasurable sensations. Female ejaculation can be a much larger amount of fluid that originates from the bladder [14] and mixes with prostate fluid before ejecting from her urethra [15, 16]. Additionally, if you haven’t turned her on enough and had enough foreplay for her Skene’s Gland and G Spot to swell, then making her squirt will be difficult. I call this increasing the Accelerators to her sex drive so that get’s crazy horny for you. It’s kind of like if your girlfriend wants to use a strap-on.
I believe that every woman can learn to squirt assuming she has the necessary physical attributes. That is, a functioning bladder, Skene’s glands, and urethra. Squirting fluid is a combination of urine and fluid from the Skene’s glands which is ejected—often forcefully—from the urethra. Female ejaculation is only fluid from the Skene’s glands and it’s often ejected less forcefully, in a trickle or drip. Oh woman squirt, and by the way, squirting is also different from female ejaculation. I’m here to tell you that while squirting fluids do contain urine, it’s not the same as urination.
Having your partner help you squirt during sex can be a wonderful and adventurous way to intensify your sex life, as well as your intimate connection. You’ll eventually start to feel a shift in the level of sensation and as you work your way up to orgasming again, it will create the perfect storm for squirting. Although Kali uses her fingers to stimulate her G-spot, she also takes advantage of the njoy Pure Wand, which “does it every time,” in her experience. We’re going to lay it all out but if you’re more of a visual learner, entertainer Kali Sudhra, in conjunction with Erika Lust, offers a complete video guide to squirting.